Veteran of the Month

 Commander Amy Hunt

Rank
Commander (Retired)

Branch of Service
United States Navy


A family history of service and her proximity to Naval Bases growing up inspired Amy to join the United States Navy. She participated in Sea Cadets during high school which eventually led to a full ROTC scholarship to attend college. After college, Amy enlisted in the Navy and embarked on her first assignment as a labor and delivery nurse. As a nurse, she served at the Naval Hospital in San Diego and in Puerto Rico. Her desire for adventure led her to live on a sailboat in Puerto Rico, where she met her future husband Sean. As her career in the Navy evolved, she eventually moved into training and education, serving as a drill instructor and recruiter.

While Amy had a lot of memorable moments in the Navy, the highlight of her career was becoming an Officer of the Deck (OOD) while serving aboard the USS Carl Vinson. As part of this assignment, Amy learned to navigate and command the ship during combat flight operations. This assignment took place in 2011 when Osama bin Laden had been killed and his body was brought aboard the ship. Being OOD during such an important moment in our nation's history was truly incredible.

As part of her assignment on the USS Carl Vinson, Amy participated in two combat deployments in the Persian Gulf and a humanitarian mission to Haiti following the catastrophic earthquake in 2010. Throughout her career, Amy had many challenging and rewarding experiences including a tour at the Pentagon, command of a Navy/Marine Corps Reserve installation, and a deployment to Iraq with a Special Operations task force during Operation Inherent Resolve. Each of these assignments presented Amy with new opportunities to develop her leadership skills.

Amy credits the rigor and discipline of the military with teaching her how to work hard and giving her the confidence to pursue even the most difficult goals. In 2020, after 24 years of distinguished service, Amy retired from the Navy at the rank of Commander. She had been offered a promotion to the rank of Captain (the equivalent to Colonel in other branches of the Armed Forces), but after reflecting on her future goals and relying on prayer and her deep faith in God to guide her next decision, she decided to retire. She ended her career with the Navy SEALs in Coronado after serving as an administrative officer and completing a combat deployment in Iraq.

Retirement did not prove to be the restful, idle experience it is for most people as Amy immediately embarked on her next challenge. First, she supported her husband in building a successful drain business in Southern California. Then, in 2020, she accepted a position as Director of Formation at Chesterton Schools. This role aligns perfectly with Amy's interests in classical education (liberal arts). She loves classical music and fine arts, so sharing that passion with students who have similar interests has given her a renewed purpose. Interestingly, the Navy provided Amy opportunities to expand this interest early in her career. When Amy was studying at the Naval War College in Newport, Rhode Island, she also served as a training command officer which placed her in charge of curriculum. She enjoyed this role as she could ensure that students were exposed to classical texts in addition to the tactical education they were receiving. This well-rounded education would prove useful to those in leadership positions and prepared Amy for the Director of Formation role she now holds 15 years later.

Throughout her life, Amy has relied on her faith and has sought ways to combine her love for the military with her love for God. A memorable Naval assignment for Amy was recruiting Chaplains from Rome. Her faith has only strengthened throughout her life and has carried her through challenges. Amy affirms that the Navy develops people as generalists and puts them in situations they've never been in so it is imperative that you learn how to perform and succeed under stressful circumstances. She jokes that she learned to do everything from delivering a baby to driving a tank, but the Navy instilled this ability to adapt that makes her such a wonderful leader. 

The Cost of Courage Foundation is honored to recognize Amy as our Veteran of the Month for July 2021 and, to us, this nomination is special. We had the privilege of getting to know Amy during her assignment as Commander of Naval Operational Support Center (NOSC) San Jose. We instantly connected with Amy's kindness and genuine concern for those who serve. Though she was a highly respected leader who skillfully commanded the operations of San Jose's NOSC installation, she was never afraid to acknowledge the struggles of her sailors and ensure that they had access to resources that could care for them. During Amy's tenure, we were proud to partner with NOSC San Jose on events that addressed emergency aid, care packaging and mental health. Amy was a proponent of suicide prevention and care for moral injury and PTSD. Participating in the suicide prevention panel Amy formed was truly an honor and we have no doubt that her efforts saved lives. The kindness and respect Amy showed our Volunteer of the Year, Bill "Papa" Estes, will never be forgotten. She treated him as her own grandfather and this genuine love is what we admire most about Amy. She is a wonderful person. Her competency as a leader and ability to put people at ease is something to emulate. 

We wish Amy the best in all of her endeavors and know she will continue to positively impact the world.

​​​HOW TO BE VETERAN OF THE MONTH

The Cost of Courage Foundation is currently accepting nominations for Veteran of the Month. This non-compensation program will highlight one Veteran each month of the year for their service in the U.S. Military. Their story will be featured on The Cost of Courage Foundation website and an announcement will be made on the organization's Facebook page and Twitter account.

To tell us about your service or to nominate a deserving veteran for our Veteran of the Month recognition program, please submit your request including:      (1) a description of service (branch, rank, years of service, significant military achievements, honors and medals awarded), (2) at least one service photo of    you (the Veteran) or the Veteran nominee in digital format and (3) reason you believe you or the Veteran nominee should be The Cost of Courage Foundation's Veteran of The Month to kelly@thecostofcouragefoundation.org

All submissions shall be in essay format not less than 500 words and not more than 1,000 words written in English. All essays shall be written in 12 point Arial font, double spaced.

The Cost of Courage Foundation Board of Trustees will review all submissions and, at its sole discretion, select the Veteran of The Month to be featured. If selected, The Cost of Courage Foundation will contact the submitter via email.

The Cost of Courage Foundation values all branches of military service and the stories of every active and veteran service personnel and is committed to publishing as many stories as quickly as possible. Once you have submitted your story or that of a nominee please do not resubmit if not selected as your original submission will remain in the applicant pool for future consideration and publication.
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​​Veteran of the Month Archive

Veteran of the Month
May 2021

EW3 Mark Thygesen

Rank
Electronics Warfare Technician, Petty Officer 3rd Class (EW3)

Branch of Service
United States Navy

Mark Thygesen was born in New Jersey on October 17, 1959. After marrying his high school sweetheart, Sue, he moved to California to serve in the United States Navy. As an Electronics Warfare Technician, 3rd Class Petty Officer (EW3), Mark served throughout the Pacific in Okinawa, the Philippines, Hong Kong, Japan and Korea aboard the USS Ogden LPD-5.

After separating from the military, Mark pursued a career as a police officer with the San Diego County Sheriff’s Department where he worked for 25 years. He retired from the department after spending the final portion of his career as an auto theft detective. According to those who knew him best, Mark enjoyed helping people and making a difference in his community. He was a stickler for fulfilling his responsibilities consistent with his training and expected the same of others.
 
While his selfless service was a large part of his life, his family was always his first priority. His wife Sue was his best friend and was a pillar of support for him throughout their marriage. Mark and Sue adopted their daughter, Alana, when she was three years old and raised her in a safe and happy home. Mark always wanted a daughter so Alana fulfilled that dream. No matter how busy he was, he always made time for her. He was very involved in her life, serving as her kindergarten class parent and walking her to school each day to ensure she made it there safely. Through Alana, Mark was blessed with three grandchildren whom he adored. He was the perfect grandfather and gave all of his love to his grandkids.

For over a decade, Mark battled kidney cancer and the complications that coincide with such a diagnosis. Like everything else in his life, Mark approached this challenge with a “No Pity Party” attitude. Despite his ailing health, he still found the strength to pursue his passion of golf, serving as a golf martial at the San Vicente Golf Course. When he wasn’t golfing, he enjoyed watching the New York Giants and spending time with his dog Nate, with whom he shared a birthday. He called Nate his “little buddy”.
 
On January 23, 2019, Mark succumbed to his long battle with cancer. His passing left a void in the hearts of his family and friends who cared deeply for him. Following his death, his new granddaughter joined the family.
 
His legacy and memory continue to be a blessing for those who knew him and his bravery in the face of health challenges is an inspiration for those facing similar diagnoses.
 
The Cost of Courage Foundation is honored to recognize Mark Thygesen as our Veteran of the Month for May 2021. We keep his family and friends in our thoughts and pray for their continued healing.

Veteran of the Month
April 2021

SGT William Wenberg

Rank
Sergeant

Branch of Service
United States Army

Unit
27th Infantry Regiment, 2nd Battalion, D Company (2013-2018)
506th Infantry Regiment, 2nd Battalion, Echo Company - 101st Airborne Division (2018-2020)

SGT William Wenberg was born in Ramona, California. He joined the United States Army in honor of his friend who was killed in an accident while attending West Point.

In the Army, SGT Wenberg was responsible for guarding and securing multi-billion dollar facilities in countries throughout the world. He deployed multiple times and enjoyed working with members of his unit and learning new things. SGT Wenberg credits his time in the military with teaching him discipline and respect and for making him more efficient. 

Upon separation from the military in 2020, SGT Wenberg pursued a career in underwater welding. He completed the educational training program and truly enjoyed working in this industry. The role satisfied his desire for danger and adrenaline and made use of his diving skills, but the pandemic made the career unpredictable.

Seeking stability and a place to utilize his infantry experience, SGT Wenberg accepted an opportunity to work as a federal contractor in Afghanistan. In this capacity, SGT Wenberg will continue serving the country and protecting its interests overseas.

In his free time, SGT Wenberg enjoys diving, surfing, off-roading and hiking.

We wish SGT Wenberg the best as he continues to serve and are honored to recognize him as our Veteran of the Month for April 2021.

Veteran of the Month
November 2020

​PO Carole Stanford

Rank
Petty Officer

Branch of Service
United States Navy

Conflicts / Deployments
Operation Desert Storm

Medals / Awards / Ribbons / Recognition
National Defense Service Medal
Southwest Asia Service Medal

PO Carole Stanford joined the Navy several years after College, 6 months after her first son was born. She was at a time in her life when she was looking for a different career path. Carole wanted her next choice to be one that she could be proud of and one that would also make her son proud. Carole's father was an inspiration for her service - he had spent his 30 year career in the Navy, including tours in the Vietnam War, and was a hero she looked up to throughout her life. He was also the inspiration for her book, Growing Up Navy.

Carole was born in a Navy Hospital along with her seven other siblings - two of her brothers are also Navy Veterans. Her family service is deeply rooted in the history of the United States. All six of her uncles and one of her aunts have served and represented every branch of the military. The Stanford Family has been serving our nation since the Civil War. Carole's 5th great grandfather was drafted by the Union during the Civil War.

Carole's father, Lonnie C. Stanford, Sr., Vietnam Veteran.

Carole's uncles, Abraham (Korean War), Lonnie Sr. (Vietnam), David (Vietnam), Jonathan (Vietnam) and her father.

 

Carole's most memorable time in the military was Desert Storm. She was transferred from Naval Hospital Camp Pendleton in Oceanside, California to Cherry Point, North Carolina. Her unit had only 3 days to get Marines, who were give only 5 hours notice, ready for deployment. Carole spent 23 hours, non-stop, performing physicals, eye exams and administering shots, preparing Marines to go overseas. Carole had never been so tired, nor had she been so fulfilled because she knew her efforts were going to help these Marines stay healthy. Carole and her team spent 10 hours performing eye exams in preparation to order hundreds of prescription gas mask inserts. Though it seemed like such a small thing, the magnitude of importance was high. In the event of a chemical attack, these Marines would be unable to see without the proper equipment. At the time, there was no corrective surgery or treatment available for such vision injuries so the consequences would have been dire.


Carole grew up playing team sports and running track throughout college. This experience taught her how to contribute her individual talents to support a broader group. These instincts deepened with her service in the Navy. In the Navy, she learned how to be a selfless life player and she learned the true meaning of sacrifice. She learned that no one wins unless we all win - no matter the cost. She learned that death may be the end of life, but it can also save a life. Finally, she also learned that everyone has value and that every life matters.


Carole has carried the lessons she learned in the Navy into her civilian life. She takes every opportunity she can to improve the quality of someone's life. She has a soft spot for Veterans and is a member of several Veterans Organizations. She is currently studying to become a Veteran's Service Officer and is dedicated to helping her fellow Veterans successfully transition after military service.


Carole is a selfless advocate for Veterans and has helped so many over the years. We have no doubt that she will continue to be a positive influence in the lives of our nation's Veterans. For this reason, The Cost of Courage Foundation is honored to recognize Carole as our Veteran of the Month for November 2020. Congratulations Carole! We truly appreciate your service and sacrifice.

Veteran of the Month
June 2020

​MGySgt Adam Brice

Rank
Master Gunnery Sergeant

Branch of Service
United States Marine Corps

Unit
1st Light Armored Reconnaissance Battalion

Conflicts / Deployments
Operation Iraqi Freedom (x2)
Fallujah (2006-2007)
Al Taqaddum (2008-2009)

Medals / Awards / Ribbons / Recognition
Meritorious Service Medal
Navy Achievement Medal

 


MGySgt Adam Brice was raised in Payson, Arizona. Born into a family of service, Adam's parents both served their country during WWII - his mother was a US Army Sergeant and his father was a Sergeant in the US Army Air Corps. His uncle Paul Nail was Killed in Action during WWII, while three other uncles honorably served in the same conflict. It was no surprise that Adam chose to follow in his family's footsteps and join the military after high school, though his journey was a bit different.

In 1989, Adam and his best friend Gordon, made a pact to get out of their small town of Payson and make something out of themselves. They initially agreed to join the military, but did not specify the branch. Without telling his friend, Adam enlisted in the Marine Corps. Though his family had a history of service in the Army, the distinction and challenge of the Marines stood out to Adam. When he returned home from processing, he received a phone call from his friend saying he heard Adam joined the Marines. His friend then said "Now it's my turn" and enlisted shortly, thereafter. His friend Gordon stayed in the Marine Corps for 8 years and began a very successful career in law enforcement and is currently serving as a Sergeant for the Tolleson Arizona Police Department.

Adam with his best friend Gordon

As a Marine, Adam had a lot of interesting experiences. From 1992 through 1994, Adam was stationed in Okinawa, Japan, which was his first time he traveled outside of North America. He appreciated the history and culture of the area and turned what was originally a one year tour into two before returning back to CONUS.

Following his tours in Japan, in 1994, Adam joined the Amphibian Vehicle Test Branch which was responsible for the testing and development of new or proposed equipment for use in the operating forces. He served in this capacity until 1998. For Adam, it was a great feeling knowing that the team was having an impact on the future of Amphibian Assault Vehicles. The team's most significant contribution was the testing/validation of upgrading the organic suspension system to the upgrade/adaptation of the suspension of the Army's Bradley Fighting Vehicle. Along with this upgrade was the enhancement to its land speed capability by adding a new, more powerful engine. This major upgrade, known as Reliability and Maintainability Rebuild to Standard (RAM/RS) made significant strides in capability and longevity to an aging platform. RAMS/RS vehicles are still in use today.

In 2006, Adam deployed to Fallujah, Iraq and served with the Combat Logistics Battalion 5/Maintenance Company. Acting as Maintenance/Operations Chief, the unit was tasked with taking combat loss equipment for the entire theater of operations. On an almost nightly basis, they inducted vehicles recently struck by IED's and had the responsibility to safeguard and process them for repair, retrograde or disposal. This task required coordination with local Iraqi truck drivers to transport and dispose of equipment designated as unrepairable or scrap.

In 2008, Adam deployed to Al Taqaddum, Iraq as part of Maint Battalion/Maintenance Company also acting as Maintenance Operations Chief. In this capacity, the unit was the highest USMC maintenance capability in that theater of operations.

Adam's incredible journey in the Marine Corps ended after 25 years of service (1989-2014). Following his retirement from the Marine Corps, Adam became a contractor/manager for Navy Region Motorcycle Safety. Adam's main hobbies are playing guitar, riding motorcycles and exercising.

HEROES Restaurant

For years, Adam and his wife Lisa had a vision of opening their own restaurant called HEROES. Since so many in their family had served and continue to serve, Adam and Lisa wanted to find a way to show their appreciation and gratitude for the sacrifices made by our military and first responders. In addition to their family's military service, Lisa's son Braden is a Firefighter and Adam's sister Lana has been a nurse for over 40 years. The concept of HEROES was to honor those who serve by displaying military and first responder memorabilia throughout the entire restaurant and making the entire establishment an homage to those who dedicate their lives to others.

In May 2018, Adam and Lisa's dream came to fruition when HEROES opened its doors to the public and instantly became a popular restaurant in Julian, California.

Motorcycle officers visiting HEROES

HEROES prides itself on having quality menu items and an emphasis on customer service. They treat every customer like family and it has become a haven for those connected to service. Lisa's youngest son Cole is the head Chef and takes so much pride in the food he serves. Cole does his best to bring creative additions to the menu. Lisa's mother also works at the restaurant greeting guests and making everyone feel welcome when they walk through the door. Through HEROES, Adam and Lisa have been able to make a positive difference in their community and remind those who serve that they are respected, appreciated and loved.

Lisa's mother, Lu, Lisa's youngest son, Cole and Lisa Brice

Unfortunately, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, HEROES was temporarily closed, but they recently re-opened in accordance with safety guidelines. Adam and Lisa are excited to serve their customers once again! We definitely encourage anyone in the San Diego area to visit HEROES and show their support for this amazing couple and this incredible restaurant!

Thank you Adam and Lisa for all you do! The Cost of Courage Foundation is honored to recognize Adam as our Veteran of the Month for June 2020.

Marine Corps Group Ride

Veteran of the Month
January 2019

 
​GySgt David Smith

Rank
Gunnery Sergeant

Branch of Service
United States Marine Corps

Unit
Marine Corps Recruit Depot (MCRD) San Diego, Battalion Operations Chief (February 2011 - July 2014) (Retired 30 July 2014)
3rd Battalion 7th Marines, Weapons Company, Combined Anti-Armor Team Red (May 2007 - February 2011)
Infantry Training Battalion, School of Infantry, Charlie Company (April 2004 - May 2007) (Instructor Group, Chief Anti-Armor Instructor)
1st Battalion 4th Marines, Weapons Company, Combined Anti-Armor Team Alpha (April 2001 - April 2004) (Gunner and Section Leader)
Infantry Training Battalion, School of Infantry, Weapons Company (June 1998 - April 2001) (Infantry Instructor)
3rd Battalion 4th Marines, Weapons Company, Combined Anti-Armor Team Red (October 1994 - June 1998) (Driver and Gunner)

Conflicts / Deployments
Operation Iraqi Freedom (Multiple Deployments including Operation Fantom Fury and Operation Minute Man)
​Operation Enduring Freedom

Medals / Awards / Ribbons / Recognition
Bronze Star Medal with Combat "V" (Valor)
Meritorious Service Medal
Navy and Marine Corps Commendation Medal with Gold Star
Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal with Combat "V" (Valor) and 2 Gold Stars
Combat Action Ribbon
Presidential Unit Citation
Navy Unit Commendation Ribbon with 1 Bronze Star (signifying 2 awarded)
Navy Meritorious Unit Commendation Ribbon with 1 Bronze Star (signifying 2 awarded)
Marine Corps Good Conduct Medal with 1 Silver Star (signifying 6 awarded)
Marine Corps Expeditionary Medal
National Defense Service Medal with 1 Bronze Star (signifying 2 awarded)
Iraq Campaign Medal with 2 Bronze Stars (signifying 3 awarded)
Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal
Global War on Terrorism Service Medal
Navy Sea Service Deployment Ribbon with 1 Bronze Star and 1 Silver Star (signifying 7 awarded)
2 Letters of Commendation
​Letter of Appreciation

​GySgt David Smith was born on Lackland Air Force Base in San Antonio, Texas on September 15, 1976. His parents served in the military for 4 years, respectively, prior to being discharged. His mother became a teacher and his father served admirably as a police officer. GySgt Smith's inspiration to join the military came from being a little boy in a small Texas town, watching tactical vehicles from Fort Hood drive back and forth on the freeway near the area he and his friends used to play. He would wonder what it was like and what kinds of things they had seen and done. In addition to that, Apache helicopters used to land in nearby farm lands where he grew up, on what he later learned were training missions. At that point, he was sold and had to find out what the military was all about!

His most memorable moment while serving in the military happened during the initial invasion of Iraq at the beginning of the war. On March 26, 2003, just south of Ash Shatrah, Iraq, from his unit's screen-line position, he spotted an enemy assembly area where a group of Fedayeen were regrouping for a continued attack on his platoon. After contributing covering fire to assist with the withdrawal of his platoon commander from an enemy ambush, he noticed a larger force massing to attack the Battalion. This force consisted of multiple enemy armored trucks loaded with personnel, small arms, mortars, machine guns and RPG’s. Mounted on his specific target, in addition to the aforementioned, was a 14.4mm Anti-Air gun. From a distance of 2000+ meters, he engaged the vehicle with a TOW Anti-Tank Missile, while being exposed to enemy small arms and RPG fire, and neutralized the threat, destroying all equipment and weapons on board, as well as the fighters in the immediate area. For this act, he was awarded the Bronze Star Medal with V for Valor.

​GySgt Smith's goal following his military service was to become a police officer like his father. However, this goal was thwarted on July 31, 2011 (just 3 years before his retirement from the Marine Corps) when he fell victim to a hit-and-run accident two traffic lights away from his destination. That afternoon, he was on his way home from the barber shop after getting a hair cut in preparation for his 24 hour post the next day. Suddenly, he was struck from behind by a felony hit-and-run DUI driver at 45 mph with no brakes, leaving him internally decapitated and comatose. He lost the majority of his spleen, had a subdural hematoma, hematoma and numerous other internal injuries. In the internal decapitation, his skull completely separated from his C1 vertebrae and his C1 completely separated from his C2 vertebrae. The only thing that stopped his head from completely detaching from his body was a tension of the skin around his neck stopping forward momentum when it reached that final point. His spinal cord was stretched out quite a bit and he was in the middle of the street as the driver fled the scene leaving him there in that intersection to expire. Internal Decapitation carries a 97% fatality rate and of that 3% that make it to a trauma center in enough time, 1% retain full use of their limbs and extremities. According to surgeons, he became a member of that 1% medical miracle.

​Though the surgeons told his fiancé at the time (now his wife) that he wouldn’t see the next day, he did. After telling her that he wouldn’t make it 48 hours after that, he did. Many letters were written by Generals, Colonels and other officers on his behalf to the Commandant of the Marine Corps to retain him on active duty, provided that he pass the physical fitness test, which he later did. He was approved to remain active until his retirement after 20 years of service. He now lives with permanent neuropathic nerve pain over 80% of his body. He has myopathy on the full left side of his body and a host of other residual injuries, but is so grateful to be alive and considers everyday a blessing.

GySgt Smith's military experience has shaped him as a person. It has given him a sense of purpose and a drive to accomplish anything he sets his mind to. It also instilled in him a sense of discipline and leadership that has served him very well in the private sector.

He now serves as a Material Planning Control Analyst at Northrop Grumman and is doing very well. That being said, GySgt Smith still has the desire to serve as a public servant and follow in his fathers footsteps. He has not given up on the possibility of some day finally receiving his law enforcement badge.

We at The Cost of Courage Foundation are so honored to recognize GySgt Smith as our Veteran of the Month for January 2019. His incredible story of both heroism and survival is an inspiration to all of us and we pray for his continued recovery from his existing injuries. We have no doubt that he will achieve his goals!

Veteran of the Month
December 2018

SPC Krystle Carruthers

Rank
Specialist

Branch of Service
Army National Guard

Unit
224 Eng. Co.

Conflicts / Deployments
Kuwait

Medals
National Defense Service Medal
Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal
Global War on Terrorism Service Medal
Armed Forces Reserve Medal w/ M Device
Army Commendation Medal

Ribbon
Army Service Ribbon

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SPC Krystle Carruthers joined the Army National Guard in 2012. She wanted to join the military to serve her country and was also seeking challenge and stability in her life. She was a person who was full of energy and loved activities such as cycling and running, so challenging herself with PT while in the Guard came very natural for her. Her First Sergeant commented that Krystle beat all the women and most of the guys at PT! As a result, she was awarded the Medal of Commendation for her PT prowess. Although she didn't come across outwardly as a person with a strong drive, she always strived to do her best in the National Guard. She was willing to serve in any capacity she was needed.

Krystle volunteered to go to Kuwait, knowing there was a need that she could help fulfill. She was deployed to Kuwait for several months in early 2015.
​On 17 May 2015, shortly after her return from Kuwait, she was hit by a car and suffered a traumatic brain injury. Krystle was given a 5% chance of survival. Because of God's mercy and grace, and her fight, spunk and determination, she survived.

From that day, she has fought and continues to beat the odds on her road to recovery. Krystle currently resides at the Oregon Veteran's Home in Lebanon, Oregon. 

​We are so honored to recognize Krystle as our Veteran of the Month for December 2018. She is truly an inspiration and we pray for her continued recovery!


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​Veteran of the Month
August 2018

SSG Paul Dayes

Rank
Staff Sergeant (E-6)

Branch of Service
United States Army Reserve

Unit
313th Military Police

Conflicts / Deployments
Operation Joint Guardian: Kosovo, 2002
Operation Iraqi Freedom: Iraq, 2003-2004 
​Operation Iraqi Freedom: Iraq, 2009-2010
Operation Enduring Freedom: Afghanistan, 2013

Medals
Afghanistan Campaign Medal w/ Campaign Star
Joint Service Commendation Medal
Army Commendation Medal (4th Award)
Army Good Conduct Medal
Army Reserve Component Achievement Medal (2nd Award)
National Defense Service Medal
Global War On Terrorism Expeditionary Medal
Global War On Terrorism Service Medal
Iraq Campaign Medal w/ Campaign Star
Armed Forces Reserve Medal w/ “M”Device
Kosovo Campaign Medal w/ Bronze Service Star
Nato Medal (2nd Award)
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Ribbons
​Non Commissioned Officer Professional Development Ribbon (2nd Award)
Army Service Ribbon
Overseas Service Ribbon (3rd Award)
Army Reserve Component Overseas Training Ribbon (2nd Award)

Badges
German Weapons Qualification (Schutzenshnur)

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​SSG Paul Dayes is a member of the United States Army Reserve's 313th Military Police. Since joining the military, he has served with distinction in Kosovo and in Iraq and Afghanistan as part of Operation Iraqi Freedom and Operation Enduring Freedom, respectively. SSG Dayes initially joined the United States Army Reserve with aspirations of becoming a Radio DJ. He was working in the radio industry selling advertising slots - which was a tough job to say the least. During his lunch break one afternoon, he walked into a recruiter's office nearby. At that moment he decided that while he still wanted to pursue his goals in radio, he also wanted to do something that was bigger than himself so he joined the military with hopes of making a difference in the lives of others. 

During his time in the military, SSG Dayes was still able to pursue his interests as a broadcast journalist as the host of a successful morning radio show out of Baghdad. During the first six months of his tour in Iraq, he was on the battlefield with a rifle in one hand and a camera in the other, documenting his experiences and the day to day activities of his unit. SSG Dayes enjoyed learning about other service members and highlighting stories of the circumstances they were facing. While awaiting a mission to Tikrit in Central Iraq, he met a female Sergeant whose two children were also serving in the military at the time. He was so intrigued by their experiences that he decided to make their family the subject of his next feature story. Though there were some logistical challenges to interviewing all of the family members since they were deployed throughout the world, he coordinated every detail and eventually secured the information he needed to complete the story, which aired on the Armed Forces Network later that year. He still keeps in contact with the family to this day and regards this experience as one of his fondest memories of his time in the service.    

While visiting one of his soldiers in the hospital in 2015, SSG Dayes met Keith and Vicki Simmons who were in the next room with their son, Chase. Chase, a soldier in the United States Army, had been in a serious car accident and was in a coma. He had been given 24 hours to live, and upon hearing his diagnosis, SSG Dayes decided to return the next day. Against all odds, Chase survived another 15 months and during that time, SSG Dayes and the Simmons Family became very close. As a testament to his dedication to their son's recovery, Keith and Vicki Simmons asked SSG Dayes to serve as a pallbearer at Chase's funeral in May 2017.

After serving overseas, SSG Dayes wanted to continue to serve his community. In 2005, he became a police officer. SSG Dayes believes that being a police officer made him a better soldier and being a soldier made him a better police officer. 

In his free time, SSG Dayes enjoys weight lifting and other physical training, spending time with his family and friends, barbecuing, going on road trips and shooting firearms. SSG Dayes is married to his wife Tonya, a Navy Veteran, and together they have two beautiful daughters.

We at The Cost of Courage Foundation are honored to recognize SSG Dayes as our Veteran of the Month for August 2018. We are truly grateful for the sacrifices he has made for our country and for his continued service to his community as a police officer. We have no doubt that he has realized his dreams of making a difference in the world and know that he will continue to enrich the lives of many with his dedication and service to the greater good.

​Thank you for all you do SSG Dayes!

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SSG Dayes with his wife and daughters

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​Veteran of the Month
July 2018
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A1C Quimby Owen Simmons

Rank
Airman First Class

Branch of Service
United States Air Force

Unit
3415th Air Police Squadron

Deployment
Korea

Conflict
Korean War

A1C Quimby Owen Simmons was born on 31 July 1933 in San Diego, California. After high school, he joined the United States Air Force in the midst of the Korean War. In 1951, he was deployed to Korea. While serving in combat, he fought in the trenches alongside his comrades, coming face to face with the enemy on more than one occasion. When the dust settled after hours of fighting, there were no bodies to be found – the enemy had taken them all away. At one point, during a heated battle, he was shot in the head, but fortunately the helmet he was wearing stopped the bullet and saved his life.
 
While in Korea, he was stationed on the biggest air base in Seoul and there were constant air raids by Russian MiG’s. A1C Simmons fought in the Battle of Pork Chop Hill – one of the deadliest conflicts of the Korean War.  During that battle, he was responsible for going into crashed airplanes, 40 of which were lost in one day, to look for survivors and neutralize enemy soldiers who would hide in the crafts in an effort to gain access to the base. His experiences in war were horrific, but his dedication to his squadron and his brothers in arms never wavered.
 
After the war, A1C Simmons discovered a passion for community service. He dedicated a great deal of his time to feeding hungry children and always shared his own food with them. He continued to serve as an Air Police Officer in the courts, ensuring the safety of everyone who occupied the facilities.
 
We at The Cost of Courage Foundation are so honored to recognize A1C Quimby Owen Simmons as our Veteran of the Month for July 2018. A1C Simmons is the grandfather of our very first Veteran of the Month, SPC Chase Simmons, who passed away in March 2017. Like his grandfather, Chase had been deployed to Korea and shared his grandfather’s dedication to service. They were both blessed with a selfless desire to impact the greater good and put the lives of others ahead of their own. We are truly grateful for the sacrifices and contributions of these two incredible men and the entire Simmons Family!

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A1C Quimby Simmons (right) with his grandson Chase (left) and son Keith (center)
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A1C Simmons talking to his grandson SPC Chase Simmons
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​A1C Simmons' Plaque Ceremony - July 2018

A1C Simmons and his son Keith holding SPC Chase Simmons' Veteran of the Month Plaque

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​Veteran of the Month
May 2018

CPL Joshua Hotaling 

Rank
Corporal

Branch of Service
United States Marine Corps

Unit
1st Battalion 5th Marines (1/5)

Deployment
Afghanistan

Conflict
Operation Enduring Freedom

Medals / Awards / Ribbons / Commendations / Badges
Purple Heart
Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal
Combat Action Ribbon
Joint Meritorious Unit Award
Navy Unit Commendation
Meritorious Unit Commendation
Marine Corps Good Conduct Medal
National Defense Service Medal
Afghanistan Campaign Medal (2 Bronze Stars)
Global War on Terrorism Service Medal
Sea Service Deployment Ribbon
NATO Medal
Presidential Service Badge
Pistol Expert Badge
​Rifle Sharpshooter Badge

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​CPL Joshua Hotaling was born in Sacramento, California. After graduating from Capital Christian High School, he and his twin brother, Troy, enlisted in the Marine Corps in April 2006. He completed his boot camp at Marine Corps Recruiting Depot San Diego.

On 11 September 2010, Joshua re-enlisted so he could deploy as a team leader and mine sweeper with the 1/5 to Afghanistan. On 13 May 2011, while on patrol in Sangin, Afghanistan, Joshua was sent to clear a compound in an effort to secure a place for his Marines to sleep that night. In the process, Joshua triggered an IED and the explosion severed both of his legs and caused severe damage to his right hand. If not for the quick actions of the Navy Corpsman and his squad, Joshua most certainly would have bled out. 

Joshua was airlifted to a field hospital where his right thumb and part of his right index and middle fingers were amputated. Once he was stabilized, he was transported to Landstuhl, Germany. Unable to speak while connected to a respirator, Joshua pointed to letters on a board to spell out a message asking if any of his buddies had been hurt in the blast. He was relieved to learn that he was the only one injured that day - a testament to his character and dedication to his Marines.

Joshua was eventually transferred to Bethesda Naval Hospital where he underwent 17 surgeries on the wounds he sustained. Once his surgeries were complete, he was sent to San Diego Naval Medical Center where he went through intense rehab and physical therapy and was fitted for prosthetics. He continued to receive treatment there until his retirement in February 2013.

After his lengthy recovery, Joshua returned to Northern California to be near his family and friends. Joshua married his wife Jenny and they welcomed a baby girl in 2017. He enjoys fishing and shooting and has discovered a passion for scuba, abalone and cave diving. 

The Cost of Courage Foundation is proud to recognize Joshua as our Veteran of the Month for May 2018. He is a truly incredible person and we wish him and his family the absolute best. We have the utmost respect for Joshua's contributions both in military service and in his current role as a civilian and have no doubt that he will continue to inspire others with his perseverance and determination.


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​​Veteran of the Month
April 2018

​​CPL Michael Fox
Age: 33

Rank
Corporal

Branch of Service
United States Marine Corps

Unit
2/4 "Magnificent Bastards"

Deployment
Afghanistan

Conflict
Operation Enduring Freedom

Medal
Purple Heart

​CPL Michael Fox was born and raised in San Diego, CA. He joined the Marines in 2008, wanting to serve his Country and protect our way of life, here in the United States. On 15 November 2011, Michael’s life was forever changed.

While on foot patrol in the Helmand Province of Afghanistan, Michael tripped an IED. The explosion was so powerful that Michael’s legs were severed as he was launched into the air by the blast. He also sustained severe damage to his left arm and hand. Whether or not Michael would live or die was in question for several days as he went through multiple life saving surgeries.

Michael survived and, after undergoing intense physical therapy at San Diego’s Naval Medical Center, has learned to walk and drive with the use of prosthetics.

While undergoing his physical therapy, Michael wanted to do something for his fellow combat wounded Marine amputees. With his father's support and assistance, Michael launched The Wounded Marine Fund. The Fund provides Grants to Combat Wounded Marine Amputees.

Michael currently lives in Texas with his wife Erica and their newborn son, Grant. His long term goals are to grow the Fund and raise young Grant.

 The Cost of Courage Foundation is proud to recognize Michael as our Veteran of the Month for April 2018 and commend him for his continued service and triumph over adversity. He is truly an inspiration.

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Michael (center) with his buddies in Afghanistan.

Michael (right) presenting a check on behalf of The Wounded Marine Fund. 

​​​Veteran of the Month
December 2017

Sgt. Paul Johnson

Rank
Sergeant

Branch of Service
United States Army

Unit
1902 Engineer Aviation Battalion
904 Quartermaster Corp

Conflict
WWII - Pacific Theater

Deployments
Iejima, Ryukyu Islands, Japan
​Hiroshima

Medals / Ribbons
​American Campaign Ribbon
Army Good Conduct Medal
Asiatic Pacific Campaign Medal
Philippine Liberation Medal
WWII Victory Medal

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Sgt. Paul Durwood Johnson was born in Sidney, Texas on December 26, 1921. He spent his early life working odd jobs throughout central Texas before joining the United States Army on August 5, 1942. He completed Basic Training at Camp Walters in Mineral Wells, Texas and was eventually stationed at Hamilton Field in Northern California where he was assigned to the 904 Quartermaster Corp. He was attached to the Motor Pool at Hamilton Field in Petaluma, California where he drove officers to meetings at the Officer’s Headquarters on Montgomery Street in San Francisco.
 
Paul met his wife Florence and her sister Rose when he started bringing his clothes to the Quartermaster Corp Laundry where they worked. Rose checked clothes in and Florence checked clothes out. Florence was responsible for bundling Paul’s clothing for pick-up and they began dating shortly thereafter. On June 3, 1944, Florence and Paul Johnson were married. To be closer to Paul, Florence transferred to the Quartermaster Corp at Hamilton Field and they lived in Petaluma for a short time. In July 1944, Paul was assigned to Geiger Field in Spokane, Washington. Florence discovered that Paul was shipping out as she was bundling the supplies he needed to have ready to leave base. Paul reported to Geiger Field in August 1944.
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He shipped out of Geiger Field in February 1945 headed to Okinawa and was deployed to Iejima, Ryukyu Islands, Japan where he served with the 1904 Engineer Aviation Battalion. He was part of the second invasion into Hiroshima shortly after the Atomic Bomb was dropped.

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​While on Iejima, he was a heavy equipment operator assigned to prepare roadways and clear land. Occasionally, he would serve as a driver for General Thomas and Colonel Greely. Not long after his arrival on the island, news correspondent Ernie Pyle was killed along with the dedicated driver for General Thomas. Until a permanent replacement was found, Paul was ordered to take over as the General’s driver. As a heavy equipment operator, he was also tasked with preparing the memorial site for Ernie Pyle – a duty he was honored to perform.
 
Paul eventually left Iejima and went to Hiroshima. During his time in the Pacific, Paul also served as a sniper because he was an excellent marksman.  While on duty, he captured a Japanese Prisoner of War and recalls sparing the soldier’s life because he was unarmed and “bare ass naked”. Another soldier, a Japanese Officer, was not as fortunate. The officer was armed with a Samurai sword that Paul kept as a souvenir and brought back with him to the States.
 
After four years of honorable service, Paul was discharged and returned to the United States in February 1946. He reunited with his wife Florence and they eventually settled down in San Jose, California where they remained happily married for 66 years until Florence’s death in June 2010. Together they have two daughters and many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Today, Paul is 95 years old and loved by all who have the privilege of knowing him.
 
We at The Cost of Courage Foundation are honored to recognize Sgt. Paul Johnson as our Veteran of the Month for December 2017 and we are so grateful for his service to our country.

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Paul with his daughter Janice, son-in-law Brian and great-granddaughter Mia

​Paul with his daughter Janice and wife Florence

Sgt. Paul Johnson's Veteran of the Month Plaque of Recognition

​Veteran of the Month
November 2017

PO3 Dave Walker

Rank
Petty Officer 3rd Class

Branch of Service
United States Navy

Unit
MCB-3
3rd Marine Amphibious
Naval Special Warfare - STAT 0311 and UDT 11

Rate
EO

Deployments
Vietnam

Awards
Navy Combat Action Ribbon
Vietnam Cross of Gallantry (Unit Award)
Vietnam Cross of Gallantry with Palm (Individual Award)
Navy Unit Commendation with Bronze Star
Vietnam Campaign Medal
National Defense Medal

Dave was born in Culver City, California on April 13th 1947.  The first born of Lucy and Mickey Walker, Dave was named after Dave Threewits who was his father's hunting buddy. In 1949 the family relocated from L.A. to the San Fernando Valley where Dave's mother still lives in the house they moved into.
Dave is a winter 1965 graduate of Reseda High School, All City Wrestler, and voted shyest boy of the class by his classmates. 
The military would soon change that!

In 1966 Dave enlisted in the US Navy and did boot camp in San Diego, California.  Dave started boxing at age 11 in Campbell, California and soon found himself boxing again this time as a heavyweight in the weekly "smokers" in boot camp.  Upon graduation Dave found out that he had been slotted to be a Seabee, and soon found himself at Camp Pendleton training for his first deployment to Vietnam with MCB-3.  He would later be attached to 3rd Marine Amphibious.

Dave would go on to serve two heavy combat tours in Vietnam. During the Tet offensive in 1968, Dave fought in the battle for the City of Hue where nearly 150 Marines were killed in one of the fiercest engagements in Vietnam.  During his first deployment, six of his friends were killed and he watched four of them die in front of his eyes.
 
After returning home on leave he decided to go back for a second tour of duty.  This time he would be in the Mekong Delta as a part of Naval Special Warfare assigned to STAT 0311 and UDT 11. He returned from that deployment and found himself in a VA Hospital in California after being injured in an accident and, though he was only 9 miles away from family, no one came to visit him except for his pastor and one other friend. The visit from his pastor and the comfort he received from his chaplain in the chaos of Vietnam is what eventually inspired him to become a chaplain himself.

In the years following Vietnam, Dave worked a classified program for nine years, was an instructor with the Army's 63rd Regional Support program as well as various warrior transition programs.  Dave was also a Police Chaplain for 22 years where he offered support on highly emotional calls that involved suicides, deaths of children, homicide victims and many more.

Immediately after the 9/11 terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center, he volunteered to go to Ground Zero in New York to be a part of a national Critical Incident Stress Management Team. As a Chaplain in a five man team, he worked with the Port Authority Police and firefighters going underground and into the debris assisting with the recovery of bodies and body parts. He would conduct mini-memorial services for those they would find in the rubble then escort the remains to the temporary morgue. He describes the entire experience and the devastation at Ground Zero as "something nightmares are made of" and remembers having flashbacks to Vietnam during quiet moments by himself. He also fulfilled requests from police officers and firefighters to bless their
St. Michael pendants and helped them through times of severe exhaustion. Like many other first responders who lent their support, Dave has suffered from a chronic, life-threatening respiratory illness as a result of his work at Ground Zero. He now takes six medications per day, four of which help him breathe.

During the last mini-memorial service he performed at Ground Zero, he made the following promise to the rescue workers that night:

"I will tell of the love, honor, dedication, courage and commitment that I have seen, and the men and women who prefer to be called family rather than heroes. I am honored that I was invited to take part in such a daunting task, and humbled to have stood in the presence of these survivors, and to have worked alongside you.”

Currently, Dave is a law enforcement instructor, as well as plank owner in an executive protection / security detail for the Navy SEAL Foundation. He lives with his wife Holly and his son Cal and dedicates his life to supporting Veterans, First Responders and their families.

We are so honored to recognize Dave as our Veteran of the Month for November 2017!

​​​Veteran of the Month
August 2017

ENS Jordan Lo

Rank
ENSIGN

Branch of Service
United States Navy

 


Jordan "Phoenix" Lo is a graduate of the University of Arizona where he earned a Bachelor's Degree in Systems Engineering as a member of the Class of 2016.

After graduating college, Jordan reported to Officer Training Command in Newport, Rhode Island for 12 weeks of training and indoctrination. Once he completed his training, Jordan checked into Naval Aviation Schools Command in Pensacola, Florida to begin his long-life dream of becoming a naval aviator.

Unfortunately, on 29 April 2017, Jordan was one of eight Naval Officers struck by a drunk driver in Pensacola, Florida.  All eight were injured, but Jordan was critical and his injuries resulted in multiple traumatic brain injuries. Jordan is now recovering at the
VA Hospital in Palo Alto, CA and hopes to leave there in the best condition possible so that he may return to Pensacola to finish up flight training and earn his
"Wings of Gold".

Jordan enjoys traveling, cooking, eating, working on cars, photography and working out.

We at The Cost of Courage Foundation are truly honored to be able to recognize Jordan's dedication to his country and are praying for his continued recovery.

Veteran of the Month
July 2017

PFC Lawrence "Candy" Valdez

Rank
Private First Class

Branch of Service
United States Army

Unit
27th Infantry Division

Deployments
Island of Saipan - 1944
Okinawa - 1945

Medals
Bronze Star Medal

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​Lawrence “Candy” Valdez was born on 3 February 1926 in Hanford, California. He was drafted into the U.S. Army in September 1944 at 18 years of age and became a Private in the induction center at the Presidio of San Francisco, California.

Three days later he was sent to Monterey, California for indoctrination, uniform fitting and evaluation. The next week he was sent to Camp Roberts. After 3 months of basic infantry training and two weeks of furlough he reported to Fort Ord for further assignment. He was promoted to Private First Class at
​Fort Ord.

From there, he boarded a Troopship to Hawaii for two weeks of jungle training with live ammunition. After which, he was sent to the Island of Saipan where he fought. He was then assigned to the 27th Infantry Division as a replacement for the invasion of Okinawa. He describes the 4th of July 1945 as one holiday he does not remember celebrating. He was fighting the Japanese on the Island of Okinawa and was busy trying to stay alive while completing a mission to take Shuri Castle on the Shuri Battle Line.

A few days before Okinawa was officially secured, PFC Valdez was in a Field Hospital suffering from a concussion and a severe case of Malaria. He was sent back to his unit the day before the war was officially declared over.

Six decades later, he was awarded the Bronze Star Medal on 13 November 2007 for “Meritorious Service in Ground Combat against the Armed Enemy during World War II in the Asiatic Pacific Operations”. 
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After the war he returned home to Hanford, California, where he attended trade school and became a Plastering Contractor - a job he held from 1950 to 1988. He got married and has three children, and many grandchildren, whom he loves very much. He was a drum mayor for the Hanford Drum and Bugle Corps from 1950 to 1963. They traveled all over California. He studied creative writing at the Senior Center and became a Creative Writer for the Hanford Sentinel (a local newspaper) for which he writes short stories. He is known in Hanford as the Dancing Man because he is an avid dancer. At the age of 91, he still dances to all kinds of music, but his favorite is “In the Mood”.

He is a humble and compassionate man. He delivers meals to the homebound from St. Mary's Church and, when his health permitted, he picked the fruit that was in season and distributed it to the needy. 

We are truly honored to recognize PFC Valdez as our Veteran of the Month for July 2017 and thank him from the bottom of our hearts for his
​service and sacrifice!

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Veteran of the Month Plaque Ceremony - 1 July 2017

We were honored to recognize PFC Lawrence "Candy" Valdez during his Veteran of the Month Plaque Ceremony in Hanford, California on 1 July 2017!
Thank you to all of his family and friends who joined us for such a special day!

Veteran of the Month
June 2017​​​​​

AD1 (AW/SW) Austin Parker

​Hometown
Sacramento, California

Rank
Petty Officer 1st Class

Branch of Service
United States Navy

Commands / Units
2007 - 2009: VFA-122
2009 - 2012: Fleet Readiness Center West
2013 - Present: CANATTU Lemoore

AD1 Parker was born on October 2, 1982 in Sacramento, California. He joined the Military in 2007 seeking a better life, opportunities and chance to defend our Country following the 9/11 attacks.

​His first duty station was NAS Lemoore (VFA-122) where he became an FA-18 Superhornet jet engine mechanic.

From there he went to FRC West where he did two deployments with the USS Enterprise CVN-65  (Operation Enduring Freedom and Operation New Dawn). Next Command was CNATTU Lemoore, where Austin became a Master Training Specalist teaching others how to build the F414 -GE-400 Engine. 

Austin was in a very serious motorcycle accident Friday, 3 March 2017, while donating time instructing riding lessons at a racetrack as a part of his community service. Motorcycles, racing, and teaching others how to ride is not only a passion but a long time love of his.

With the help of USC and the team at the Palo Alto VA Hospital, Austin is recovering and learning how to adjust to his injuries. Having friends and family by his side through this journey has made a world of differance.

With a new outlook on life, he knows things may never be the same but nothing is impossible if you put your mind to it. An important lesson he's learning is:
​Things may have to be done differently, but that does not mean it cannot be done.
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We are so proud to recognize Austin as our Veteran of the Month for June 2017!
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​​​​Veteran of the Month
May 2017

​LCpl Cody McCleary
Age: 23

​Hometown
Zachary, Louisiana

Rank
E-3 - LCpl

Branch of Service
United States Marine Corps

Unit
2BN-Fox 252

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​LCPL Cody James McCleary was born on March 1, 1994 in Maryland and was raised in Zachary, Louisiana by his mother and father, Jeff McCleary and Sara Welch. Cody graduated from Zachary High School and his bravery, courage and selflessness led him to join the United States Marine Corps. On April 23, 2013, Cody graduated 3rd in his class from boot camp in Parris Island, South Carolina and from there he went on to complete and graduate from MP school in
​St. Louis, Missouri. Cody is stationed at MCRD in San Diego, California, where he has been for the past 3 years.
 
Cody is an avid lover of dirt bike riding, hunting, fishing, and, on his off time from the Marines, Cody donates his free time to local schools in and around the San Diego area coaching and helping children play ball. Cody loves his family, friends, and especially his 3 year old son Myles. 
 
December 3, 2016 is a day etched in time for Cody’s family and friends. Cody was doing what he loved, dirt bike riding, when he had a horrific accident. Cody suffered from multiple injuries including a broken neck and was diagnosed with a Traumatic Brain Injury.  It was then that the doctors gave Cody’s parents and family no hope. Little did the doctors know, failure is not an option for Cody and he wasn’t going down without a fight.
 
By the grace of God, the power of prayer, and one miracle after another, Cody overcame all odds. Cody is currently in the Polytrauma Unit at the Audie L. Murphy Memorial VA Hospital in San Antonio, Texas, and with the help of his mother, Sara, who has not left his bedside, he continues on his journey towards healing. Cody is making great progress and is showing everyone that “FAILURE IS NEVER AN OPTION”.

We are honored to recognize Cody as Veteran of the Month and pray for his continued recovery!

Cody with his mom, Sara. 

Cody with his Great Grandmother and son Myles.

Cody with his brother, stepsisters, stepmom and his dad. 

​​Veteran of the Month
April 2017

MMN2 (SS) Jackson Sherry

Rank
MMN2 (SS)

Branch of Service
United States Navy

Medals
Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal

MMN2(SS) Jackson Sherry was born and raised in Monterey, California. He joined the U.S. Navy following high school graduation seeking an opportunity for the future that would provide him with the work experience and education necessary to improve his circumstances. In August 2012, he attended Recruit Training at RTC in Great Lakes, Illinois. Between October 2012 and February 2013, he attended Machinist's Mate 'A' School at NNPTC in Goose Creek, South Carolina, graduating third in his class. He stayed in South Carolina and went on to attend Naval Nuclear Power School where he graduated with distinction. In August 2013, he began training in the MARF Power Plant at NPTU in Ballston Spa, New York. In November 2014, Jackson reported for duty aboard the USS Connecticut as a Nuclear Trained Machinist's Mate. He qualified on Submarine Warfare in under five months and carried the boat to the end of its dry dock overhaul period while also participating in a successful undocking procedure. For his efforts, he received a Navy/Marine Corps Achievement Medal which he was awarded for assisting the boat in receiving above average marks during an onboard inspection of calibrated equipment.

Unfortunately, Jackson was injured in an accident on 1 January 2016 and has since been recovering and adjusting to life as a quadriplegic. Since then, he has dedicated his life to inspiring and motivating others who are facing adversity. His goal is to build a network of forward-thinking, fit, recovery inspired people with physical disabilities who can help spread the word about the possibilities that are out there for disabled persons. According to Jackson, "Too many people see their injury as a life-ending event and they often don't look farther than their own front door for help. I'd like to change that as much as I can and I need a network of support to do so".

Jackson currently posts videos on his YouTube Blog showing how he lives his life to the fullest in an effort to inspire others to do the same and get outside of their bubble. He firmly believes that life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

Jackson's hobbies include swimming, weightlifting, mountaineering, cycling and, in general, pushing his limits.

Jackson is a truly inspiring individual who continues to use the skills and resilience he learned during his time in the service to help others who are struggling in life.  He is incredibly hard working and dedicated to his goals and we have every confidence that he will make himself and the world proud. We are truly honored to be able to recognize Jackson as Veteran of the Month for April 2017.

​​Veteran of the Month Plaque Ceremony - 28 April 2017

We were honored to celebrate with Jackson's friends and family during his Veteran of the Month Plaque Ceremony and
Reception at Colton Hall in Monterey, CA! 
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​​Veteran of the Month
September 2016

SSgt Stuart DiPaolo

Rank
Staff Sergeant

Branch of Service
United States Marine Corps

Unit
1st Marine Raider Support Battalion

MOS
3521 - Organizational Automotive Mechanic
8411 - Canvassing Recruiter

Deployments
Iraq - February 2006 - April 2007
Iraq - February 2008 - September 2008
Afghanistan - January 2014 - August 2014
Overseas Duty Station - Okinawa Camp Kinser 2005 - 2007

Medals
Navy and Marine Corps Commendation Medal (x2)(1 Gold Star)
Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal
Iraq Campaign Medal (x2)
Afghanistan Campaign Medal
Good Conduct Medal (x4)
NATO ISAF Medal
National Defense Medal
Global War on Terrorism Medal

Ribbons
Navy Unit Citation Ribbon (x3)
Meritorious Unit Citation Ribbon
Recruiting Ribbon
Overseas Ribbon (x3)

SSgt Stuart DiPaolo grew up in Gray, Maine. He joined the United States Marine Corps because he had a desire to make a difference and defend his country. SSgt DiPaolo was a member of the 1st Marines Raider Support Battalion where he held an E7 billet as an E6 as a Motor Transportation Chief. He also served as the Battalion's Uniform Victim Advocate and was the licensing officer for the Battalion and temporarily acted as OIC. During his time in the Marines, SSgt DiPaolo deployed to Iraq twice and to Afghanistan once. He is the recipient of many citations resulting from his distinguished service.

On 5 October 2015, SSgt DiPaolo was severely injured at Camp Pendleton during a MRZR and ATV licensing course. Due to rains the previous night the roads were treacherous. SSgt DiPaolo was lead vehicle when he was thrown from his ATV and the 1900 pound armored vehicle landed on his neck and face. The force of the ATV broke and crushed every bone in SSgt DiPaolo's face and detached his left eye from the optical nerve tearing off most of his face and jaw. Due to complications from his injuries, SSgt DiPaolo suffered a massive stroke and was not expected to survive. Fortunately, his wife allowed doctors to perform what turned out to be a life saving surgery and when SSgt DiPaolo awoke from his medically induced coma, he was in better condition than anyone could have ever imagined and was even using hand signals to communicate.

As a result of numerous surgeries, SSgt DiPaolo developed a severe brain infection and was left completely paralyzed on his left side and blind in his left eye. He had partial vision in his right eye but was unable to talk, swallow or open his mouth. Once his condition stabalized, he was moved to an inpatient rehabilitation center where he has made miraculous strides. SSgt DiPaolo now has the ability to open his jaw and has regained some use of his left leg. He is also learning how to walk short distances, do transfers and sit up unassisted.

SSgt DiPaolo's hard work and determination is astonishing. His goal is to continue to heal so that one day he can walk short distances on his own and go home with his wife and two young daughters. He would also like to use his experiences to help other disabled service members through their hard times. Prior to his accident, SSgt DiPaolo enjoyed spending time with his friends and family and his dog Optimus. He loved the outdoors, visits to the beach and family outings. One of his favorite activities was playing XBox with his wife and all of his friends online.

We at The Cost of Courage Foundation have the deepest appreciation and respect for SSgt DiPaolo. His incredible story is truly an inspiration and we pray for his continued recovery. It is an honor to recognize SSgt Stuart DiPaolo as our Veteran of the Month for September 2016.

Veteran of the Month Plaque Ceremony - 31 August 2016

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Veteran of the Month
July 2016

SPC Chase Simmons
​Age: 22

Rank
SPC

Branch of Service
U.S. Army

Unit
65th Medical Brigade

Deployment
South Korea

SPC Chase Simmons was born in Ramona, CA into a loving family that has a long line of military service. Chase's father served in the U.S. Navy
and re-enlisted in the U.S. Army after September 11th and was deployed as a tank gunner. After graduating high school, Chase followed in his father's
footsteps and joined the U.S. Army with a motivation to help soldiers struggling with PTSD. Chase was stationed in South Korea for a year and a half
where he worked as a Behavioral Health Specialist as part of the 65th Medical Brigade. In this capacity, he realized his dream of helping fellow soldiers overcome the detrimental effects of PTSD and prevented suicides with his genuine understanding and ability to communicate with soldiers
that were dealing with deployment stressors and emotional struggles.

In December 2015, while on leave for the holidays, Chase was severely injured in a collision with a truck in Lakeside, CA. Chase was diagnosed
with brain damage and a broken neck among other injuries. Given only two days to live, survival seemed hopeless, but by miracle, Chase overcame tremendous odds and began his long journey toward recovery where he is making great strides. Chase is currently recovering in the hospital where his mother Vicki Simmons ​stays by his side each day helping him heal. Prior to his accident, Chase enjoyed running, hiking, rock climbing and visiting the beach.
He loves his family and friends, especially his brother Chad.

​ We are all praying for Chase's quick recovery and it is truly an honor to highlight Chase as our very first Veteran of the Month. 

UPDATE: We are heartbroken to share that on 2 May 2017, SPC Simmons succumbed to his injuries and passed away at a Care Facility in Southern California. We were so fortunate to have gotten to know SPC Simmons and his mother Vicki Simmons and were honored to tell his story and recognize him as our very first Veteran of the Month in July 2016. While we have gotten to know many Veterans and their families over the years, the Simmons Family had a huge impact on all of our volunteers. We saw first hand Vicki's dedication to her son's recovery and her unconditional love for Chase was truly inspiring and heartwarming. Please continue to pray for the Simmons Family during this difficult time.

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Veteran of the Month
October 2016

PFC Tomas Cortez
Age: 94
Born: 7 March 1922

Rank
PFC

Branch of Service
U.S. Army

Unit
821st Tank Destroyer Battalion

Conflict
WWII

Medals
Good Conduct Medal
  Marksmen Medal
  European Theatre Medal
   French Legion of Honor Medal

Award
American GI Forum Award of Recognition

PFC Tomas Cortez was born on March 7, 1922 in Santa Paula, CA. He was the oldest of eight children and worked as a farm laborer for most of his life. His family moved to San Jose, California in the late 1930’s where he continued to work in the fields until he received his draft notice and reported to Basic Training at Fort Hood.

PFC Cortez was assigned to the 821st Tank Destroyer Battalion and trained in Breckinridge, Kentucky until the Battalion was flown to London before the invasion of Normandy in 1944. The Battalion arrived in Wales, United Kingdom on April 17, 1944.
 
As the Normandy Invasion took place, the 821st Tank Destroyer Battalion gave support to the allied forces. The Battalion went on to fight in the Battle of Saint Lo on June 25, 1944 - one of the last battles to drive the Germans out of France. During this battle PFC Cortez was hit by friendly fire and sustained an injury that ended his military career. It was determined that his Sergeant Bruce Edwards, who went on to play as Catcher for the Brooklyn Dodgers, was responsible for the friendly fire incident.
 
PFC Cortez was Honorably Discharged and arrived back in California on December 21, 1944. After recovering from his injury, he worked in the canneries of San Jose until he landed a job at Moffet Field NAS. He worked as a driver for the Navy and a field tester/proctor for Navy license exams. He met and married San Jose resident Aurelia (Rita) Quihuis and was married for 60 years until Mrs. Cortez's passing in 2009. During WWII, Mrs. Cortez worked in the naval shipyards in Alameda, CA making her one of many women serving as a "Rosie the Riveter." The couple had two children - Sophia Cortez and Darrell Cortez. Mr. Cortez was very active in the Veteran community after the war, serving as a member of the American Legion Post 809 in San Jose. At that post, he held the position of Commander, Vice Commander and Adjutant.
 
Mr. Cortez is now 94 yrs old and living in a VA care facility. Some of his favorite hobbies include listening to Benny Goodman and Tommy Dorsey music, spending time with family and visiting with his three grand children.
 
He is the recipient of many medals and awards for his service including the French Legion of Honor Medal for participating in the WWII liberation of France and the American GI Forum Award of Recognition.
 
The Cost of Courage Foundation is honored to recognize PFC Tomas Cortez as our Veteran of the Month for October 2016. We truly appreciate his service and sacrifice on behalf of our country and are proud to highlight his story this month.  

Veteran of the Month Plaque Ceremony - 2 October 2016

Members of the United States Air Force joined us in honoring PFC Cortez at his Veteran of the Month Ceremony  at Valley House Rehabilitation Center.

Veteran of the Month
June 2021

Colonel Robert Harvey Sulzen

Rank
Colonel

Branch of Service
United States Army
United States Army Reserve

Unit
35th Armored Division

Robert Harvey Sulzen was born on 16 March 1939 in Chicago, Illinois. His father worked in the airplane industry, training mechanics and traveling across the country to various military installments. As a result of his father’s association with military personnel, Robert developed a passion for service. From a young age, Robert had a very strong sense of duty. He always desired to serve with those who protect our country. Robert joined the United States Army after graduating from UCLA. During this time, he also married his wife Kathy who he had met through mutual friends.


At the time Robert enlisted in the military, the United States was in the midst of the Cold War. His service spanned the tensions of the Cuban Missile Crisis and the construction of the Berlin Wall. He served in Germany for 3 years on active duty with the Army. Following his initial four years, he continued to serve in the National Guard or Army Reserve in every state he lived in over the course of thirty years. As part of his reserve duty, he was deployed in support of multiple domestic disasters. He rose to the rank of Colonel and continued to serve until he became eligible for retirement. Not wanting to leave the military, but having no available position for his rank, he re-enlisted in the Army Reserves as a Sergeant and served another four years in that capacity.


In his civilian role from 1967-1997, Robert worked for the Army Research Institute for thirty years. He was responsible for military training research and this role required him and his family to move to Ohio, Virginia, Maryland, Georgia and California. Following his retirement, he accepted another position at the Omega Training Group where he worked for 10 years until he retired indefinitely in 2006.

Robert has a profound respect and connection with those who serve. He has a deep appreciation for their dedication and sense of commitment to each other and is moved by their willingness to give their lives and sacrifice. He is the proud father of seven children and grandfather to many grandchildren. In support of his own children and personal connection to the organization as a former Boy Scout, Robert served almost twenty years as a scout leader for the Boy Scouts of America. He participated in scouting councils and remained actively involved in the organization for many years.


He has an avid interest in the history of WWII and maintains an extensive library on the subject. After decades of service, Robert is happily retired, living in Conroe, Texas with his wife. They have 21 grandchildren and 13 great grandchildren.

The Cost of Courage Foundation is honored to recognize Robert as our Veteran of the Month for June 2021. We truly appreciate his years of service and the sacrifices he made on behalf of our nation.

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Sgt. Donald Fitzmaurice Tribute

Sgt. Donald Edward Fitzmaurice
Born: 13 March 1919 -- Killed in Action 18 April 1942

Rank
Sergeant E-5

Unit
95th Bomb Squadron
12th Army Air Force/17th Bombardment Group

Years of Service
1940-1942 (KIA)

Conflict
WWII

Awards/Medals
Distinguished Flying Cross
 Purple Heart
 American Defense Service Medal
American Campaign Medal
Asiatic-Pacific Campaign Medal
WWII Victory Medal 
Chinese Breast Order of Yung Hui

Distinguished Flying Cross Citation
"For extraordinary achievement while participating in a highly 
destructive raid on the Japanese mainland on April 18, 1942. Sergeant 
Fitzmaurice volunteered for this mission knowing full well that the chances of 
survival were extremely remote, and executed his part in it with great skill and 
daring. This achievement reflects high credit on Sergeant Fitzmaurice and the 
military service."

Sgt. Donald Fitzmaurice was born March 13, 1919 in Lincoln, Nebraska where he lived with his family until he graduated high school as Valedictorian of his class. Though he had ambitions to become a cattle rancher like his father, the Great Depression led him to join the Civilian Conservation Corps (CCC) and eventually the US Army Air Corps in order to support his family financially. Donald enlisted in the US Army Air Corps on August 13, 1940 and completed his training at Chanute Field, Illinois. He then went on to serve as a B-25 Mitchell mechanic and flight engineer at McChord Field, Washington. In February 1942, Donald was selected to be a part of what became known as the Doolittle Raid. Upon selection, Donald volunteered to participate without knowing what the mission entailed. Donald trained at Eglin Field, Florida until April 1942 when he and 79 other brave men left for Alameda, California where they boarded the USS Hornet and embarked on one of the most pivotal missions of WWII. Once aboard the USS Hornet, the airmen were notified that they would be launching a retaliatory attack against Japan in direct response to Pearl Harbor. Unfortunately, the crew was forced to execute the mission hours earlier than planned after being spotted by the Japanese. The airmen cleared their planes of all unnecessary weight, including extra fuel tanks. Donald was aboard plane six, nicknamed "The Green Hornet" as it left the deck of the ship en route to drop bombs on Tokyo in a surprise attack. Each of the 16 planes bombed their targets which included airfields and ammunition plants and once the mission was completed, they continued flying toward China. Unfortunately, since they were forced to leave earlier than expected, all 16 planes began to run out of fuel and many were forced to prepare for crash landings. Due to his position in the plane, when The Green Hornet crash landed off of the coast in Shatow, China, Donald was killed on impact. He was buried on the beach by his comrades and remained MIA until his body was recovered in 1946. Donald now rests at Golden Gate National Cemetery in San Bruno, CA among thousands of his fellow service members, many of whom made the ultimate sacrifice for their country.